Identify procrastination-inducing thoughts

Your brain is constantly producing thoughts.

Some of these thoughts are motivating; they help you achieve your goals.
e.g. ‘Come on, just a bit more effort and I’ll be done’

Other thoughts are demotivating; they reduce the likelihood of you achieving your goals. They arise when there is a conflict between what you want to do (study) and what you’re actually doing (e.g. looking for distractions). Your brain tries to reduce the unpleasant mental tension caused by this conflict by coming up with a logical-sounding excuse to justify your behaviour.
e.g. ‘An hour isn’t long enough to work on this subject; I’ll start tomorrow when I’ve got the whole afternoon free’

We tend to believe these excuses, but this isn’t always justified. Thoughts do not always correspond to the truth.
e.g. can you really do absolutely nothing in an hour?

You have no control over which excuse your brain automatically comes up with to reduce the tension. But you can choose how to deal with those thoughts.

This two-step plan helps you deal with thoughts that trigger procrastination:

Step 1: Expose your excuses for procrastination

Many thoughts pop into your head without you even realising it. Yet they have a strong influence on your behaviour.

That is why it is useful to recognise unhelpful thoughts. Unhelpful thoughts are often disguised as ‘excuses for procrastination’: ways of justifying putting things off.
As soon as a thought pops into your head, ask yourself two questions:
1. Is this thought true? Is this a fact?
2. Does this thought help me to achieve my goal, to take that first step right now?
→ If you answer ‘no’ to both questions, then you’ve spotted a procrastination excuse!

- Discover common excuses for procrastination (video, 7’)
- 14 excuses we often tell ourselves (website)
- A glimpse into the mind of someone who procrastinates (infographic)

Sometimes unhelpful thoughts stem from deeper-rooted fears. Do your unhelpful thoughts mainly revolve around:

  • the fear of making mistakes?
  • the feeling that you’re not clever enough?
  • the pressure that everything has to be perfect?

→ In that case, procrastination may be a defence mechanism against failure. After all, if you don’t start, you can’t ‘fail’.

Does this sound familiar? If so, it might be useful to work through our e-module on fear of failure as well as this one.

Step 2: Neutralise your excuses for procrastinating

Once you’ve identified your unhelpful thoughts, you can start working on them. Below are a few ways to deal with unhelpful thoughts or excuses for procrastination, once you’ve pinpointed them.

The 5-second rule

Do you find yourself wanting to procrastinate and feel an excuse for putting things off coming to mind? If so, count down slowly in your head: 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.

Your rational mind needs about 5 seconds to kick in. By counting consciously, you give your brain time to reconsider the situation.

After those 5 seconds, ask yourself: Is putting it off really a good idea right now? Often, the urge to seek a distraction will have already subsided by then.

Accepting and letting go of your thoughts

You don’t have to believe or act on every thought. By observing thoughts without getting caught up in them, they lose their hold on your behaviour and your feelings.

Do you notice an unhelpful thought?

- Observe and name it. See what thought is coming up and name it. “Ah, there’s that ‘this-is-so-difficult-I’ll-never-get-it-done’ thought again.”
- Accept it. Don’t judge it; just let the thought be.
- Let it go. Let the thought drift away and carry on with what you were doing, e.g. reading the scientific article.

- Here’s how to let go of your thoughts (infographic)
- Accepting and letting go of thoughts (video, 3’)
- Using the strategy of emotion surfing (document)

Creating helpful thoughts

Try to turn procrastination excuses into more helpful thoughts. There are two ways to do this:

  • rephrase 

You can turn some unhelpful thoughts into more helpful ones by rephrasing them. You can do this as follows:

  • Add the word ‘yet’
    ‘I don’t have an overview of everything I need to do.’ → ‘I don’t have an overview of everything I need to do YET.’
  • Replace ‘but’ with ‘and’
    ‘I do want to get started, but I’ve got absolutely no motivation.’ → ‘I do want to get started AND I’ve got absolutely no motivation.’
    → it’s OK to feel reluctant, whilst still getting started.
  • Replace ‘have to’ with ‘want to’
    ‘I have to study’ → ‘I WANT to study for an hour now’ or ‘I’m choosing to study for an hour now’
  • Add ‘I think’
    ‘I’ll never manage this; it’s too much work.’ → ‘I THINK I’ll never manage this.’
    → This phrasing creates some breathing space; it leaves open the possibility that your thoughts aren’t necessarily the truth.
  • replace them with helpful thoughts

Do you find yourself making excuses for procrastination? If so, replace them with a realistic, helpful thought.

Question your excuse for procrastinating:

  • Is this thought true?
    E.g. Will I really suddenly be more motivated tomorrow than I am now?
  • Is the thought really true; does it match the facts?
    E.g. Have I actually performed better in the past by waiting for motivation, or did that procrastination actually cause extra stress?
  • Always?
    E.g. Have I only ever been able to study when I was 100 per cent up for it, or have I sometimes started with little motivation, only for things to go quite well as I went along?
  • Under all circumstances?
    E.g. Does ‘no motivation’ mean that nothing can happen under any circumstances whatsoever?
  • What evidence do I have for that?
    E.g. What hard evidence do I have that I can only start once I’m motivated?

A few more questions to challenge unhelpful thoughts (infographic)

Formulate more helpful thoughts that are in line with reality.
Examples of helpful thoughts include:

  • It’s a tricky chapter, but if I read the first three pages now, at least I’ll have made a start.
  • This uncomfortable feeling is temporary; the sense of satisfaction afterwards is greater.
  • I don’t need to feel like doing this to be able to do it.
  • I don’t have to get it perfect straight away. A messy first draft is better than a blank page.

Critical questions to help you debunk your excuses for procrastination (document)
29 daily affirmations to stop procrastination (website)