Your brain is constantly producing thoughts.
Some of these thoughts are motivating; they help you achieve your goals.
e.g. ‘Come on, just a bit more effort and I’ll be done’
Other thoughts are demotivating; they reduce the likelihood of you achieving your goals. They arise when there is a conflict between what you want to do (study) and what you’re actually doing (e.g. looking for distractions). Your brain tries to reduce the unpleasant mental tension caused by this conflict by coming up with a logical-sounding excuse to justify your behaviour.
e.g. ‘An hour isn’t long enough to work on this subject; I’ll start tomorrow when I’ve got the whole afternoon free’
We tend to believe these excuses, but this isn’t always justified. Thoughts do not always correspond to the truth.
e.g. can you really do absolutely nothing in an hour?
You have no control over which excuse your brain automatically comes up with to reduce the tension. But you can choose how to deal with those thoughts.
This two-step plan helps you deal with thoughts that trigger procrastination:
Many thoughts pop into your head without you even realising it. Yet they have a strong influence on your behaviour.
That is why it is useful to recognise unhelpful thoughts. Unhelpful thoughts are often disguised as ‘excuses for procrastination’: ways of justifying putting things off.
As soon as a thought pops into your head, ask yourself two questions:
1. Is this thought true? Is this a fact?
2. Does this thought help me to achieve my goal, to take that first step right now?
→ If you answer ‘no’ to both questions, then you’ve spotted a procrastination excuse!
- Discover common excuses for procrastination (video, 7’)
- 14 excuses we often tell ourselves (website)
- A glimpse into the mind of someone who procrastinates (infographic)
Sometimes unhelpful thoughts stem from deeper-rooted fears. Do your unhelpful thoughts mainly revolve around:
→ In that case, procrastination may be a defence mechanism against failure. After all, if you don’t start, you can’t ‘fail’.
Does this sound familiar? If so, it might be useful to work through our e-module on fear of failure as well as this one.
Once you’ve identified your unhelpful thoughts, you can start working on them. Below are a few ways to deal with unhelpful thoughts or excuses for procrastination, once you’ve pinpointed them.
Do you find yourself wanting to procrastinate and feel an excuse for putting things off coming to mind? If so, count down slowly in your head: 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Your rational mind needs about 5 seconds to kick in. By counting consciously, you give your brain time to reconsider the situation.
After those 5 seconds, ask yourself: Is putting it off really a good idea right now? Often, the urge to seek a distraction will have already subsided by then.
You don’t have to believe or act on every thought. By observing thoughts without getting caught up in them, they lose their hold on your behaviour and your feelings.
Do you notice an unhelpful thought?
- Observe and name it. See what thought is coming up and name it. “Ah, there’s that ‘this-is-so-difficult-I’ll-never-get-it-done’ thought again.”
- Accept it. Don’t judge it; just let the thought be.
- Let it go. Let the thought drift away and carry on with what you were doing, e.g. reading the scientific article.
- Here’s how to let go of your thoughts (infographic)
- Accepting and letting go of thoughts (video, 3’)
- Using the strategy of emotion surfing (document)
Try to turn procrastination excuses into more helpful thoughts. There are two ways to do this:
rephrase
You can turn some unhelpful thoughts into more helpful ones by rephrasing them. You can do this as follows:
Do you find yourself making excuses for procrastination? If so, replace them with a realistic, helpful thought.
Question your excuse for procrastinating:
A few more questions to challenge unhelpful thoughts (infographic)
Formulate more helpful thoughts that are in line with reality.
Examples of helpful thoughts include:
Critical questions to help you debunk your excuses for procrastination (document)
29 daily affirmations to stop procrastination (website)